How To Pick Up Girls Without Going To Bars And Clubs

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First, that since the problem is psychological, there are some easy ways to overcome that fear. Second, you have to understand girls too. Here are 5 useful tips on things to talk to girls about with more confidence.

Learn to change your attitude, and keep a man drawn to you for your character strength, vitality and appreciation for yourself and for him. Relationships are built on talk, talk, and more talk. The key you need to learn is to take the lead in the conversation. By focusing on the other person, you won’t get stage fright or feel shy.

This should be a no brainier, but I’ve seen many guys make this mistake. They think that by kissing up to the girl, she’ll want to keep talking to them. This makes you look weak and desperate, so don’t do it! While I don’t agree with the notion that girls only like guys that treat them like crap, I do think that keeping her down to Earth will help your chances in her wanting to talk to you, because it will keep her intrigued. You should talk to her with an attitude of: “I’m talking to you, but I don’t want to date you”. It’s okay to flirt and tease, but just don’t put her on a pedestal. Giving her compliments in a subtle way is a great thing to do, because it will keep her thinking, “what did he mean by that”?

Be a chum. Don’t just be the pick of the week or a cute fling. Friendship is the best platform on which to build a genuine romance. Now, you don’t want him to start thinking of you as just another one of his meat-head dude friends, but at least get some genuine dialogue started. Discover your similar interests, latch on to those things, and explore them as things to talk to girls. Stay fun and keep it interesting, and his mind will soon become curious about learning other things about you. This is one of the great portals into the next dimension of your budding mature love relationship, and a great starting point for the guy to begin the magical trip of falling for you.

If you intend to build some kind of a friendship with a girl, make sure that your first approach will be gentle enough so she doesn’t get offended or intimidated. It will do good to approach her simply without the usual bravado reserved fro close friends and guy friends.

This gives you a really good idea of what sort of places your date would like to go to and whether you would like to take them. Ask them all sorts of questions about the place and why they chose it and what are the best parts of that place and how much it would cost.